Of Scotch and Sassy Spray

My sister-in-law, whom I will call Strong Mama (don’t mess with her… She’s a Crossfit Box owner) reported this situation back to me, and it’s hilarious (or I think it is) so I’m sharing it with you. Enjoy. In celebrating Labor Day Weekend, my family went to my inlaws lake house to ride jetskis, swim and cookout. Our older three children, Butch Cassidy, Sundance Kid, and the Princess spent the night there, Sunday night, while the High Roller and I came home with only LLL for the night. It was gloriously quiet… And kind of strange… And so EASY. It’s crazy when “ONLY” having a wild toddler with you feels like a vacation, because you’re used to handling the insanity of four kids. But I digress. Their aunt (Strong Mama), uncle and two young cousins were also spending the night. My inlaws are saints that love having everyone around… I hope to develop that approach to life over time…. According to Strong Mama, the kids were all playing nicely before the fussing and yelling started. She was taking care of her newborn and listening to them play, when my niece, the Gymnast, who is LLL’s age, and Sundance started telling…

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Five Ways to Have Fun for Free

By: Jessica Azar As I mentioned in Saving Money and Having Fun, Too! Our family is trying very hard to cut out wasteful, mindless spending because, although it’s seriously fun, we are not meeting our savings goals when we have the means to be putting a serious dent in them. In attempting to do this, I’m seeking every possible way I can to find fun things for the Herd to do that don’t cost much money or (even better) any money at all. It’s requiring more effort on my part, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing… It keeps me more engaging with them and less time mindlessly playing on social media (which I love and isn’t ALWAYS just playing, but still… They deserve more of my divided attention). So here are my latest attempts to provide fun on a budget… I present Five Ways to Have Fun for Free. 1) Bubbles What kid doesn’t like Bubbles? I decided to go to Target at buy each of the kids a Bubble Wand (they were $.99 each), a toddler bubble bucket with wands for LLL to make it easier fir her and less messy ($5) and a huge jug of bubble…

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Saving Money and Having Fun, too! Finding Free Kids Activities and Adventures

By Jessica Azar I’m a week late writing this post, but since it will be a topic that I will be revisiting, I’m going to go ahead and write it! The High Roller and I started looking at our finances and realized that we are spending way too much money on frivolous things, like going out to eat a ton of times during the month, or on entertainment, when there are obvious alternatives right in front of us…. They might require more planning and effort, but they’re there. We are trying to regroup and refocus on accomplishing our financial goals, like completely paying off our vehicles and saving enough to start building our new house… So changes must be made! The thing is, a few years ago, when Butch Cassidy and Sundance were very, very small, money was very tight for us and we found all kinds of ways to save money and make do with much less. Over time, as our income has improved, we’ve allowed our spending to grow alongside of it, and while a certain amount of that is just fine (I believe in enjoying some of the fruits of your labor in the present) we have…

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